Mother’s Day is a time to celebrate mothers and the mother figures who strengthen and support us in our lives. We want to recognize and honor the fierce mom advocates who have shared their stories and struggles, and the strength to fight for families nationwide.
This past year, moms nationwide raised their voices for a historic investment in Medicaid home and community-based services (HCBS) so that everyone can get the support they need to live in their community.
Andrea from Virginia, Julie from Texas, and their families shared their struggles as they wait for nearly a decade for HCBS that can help their children get the critical care they need at home. While family time comes with much joy and love, Julie knows that “[she’s] not going to live long enough to be her [child’s] direct caregiver forever.”
In October 2021, Pennsylvania disabled mom and activist, Latoya, came to Washington, D.C., to a storytelling vigil at the U.S. Capitol to share why HCBS matters to her and her family.
I came here today because I am literally fighting for my life and freedom…. Home and community-based services and accessible housing keep me from being stuck in an institution to get my needs met-something nobody of any age wants. I want Congress to understand that their political games are putting my life and my freedom at risk, and to stop the posturing and realize what your inaction is doing to real people.
Virginia mom and sibling, Laurie, shared her and her sister Amy’s story of transitioning from an institution to receiving HCBS in a group home and how this change helped her sister grow, even though it was a scary change for their family.
California mom, Amparo, was concerned that her son Jesus and other Latino families might struggle to access disability supports and services like HCBS. From this concern, Amparo joined forces with mothers in her state to launch a local chapter of The Arc, Madres Unidas Para Una Mendota Con Igualdad of The Arc. This chapter is dedicated to fearlessly confronting disparities and racism and ensuring all people can access disability services.
On March 30th, New York mom, Laura, spoke about her family’s need for HCBS at a rally at the U.S. Capitol and entreated Congress to act urgently and boldly to support people with disabilities and their families.
The rippling effects of our crumbling care system impact everyone. We have a crisis in this country as the salaries of direct support professionals do not match the important work they do…. We need a well-trained and stable workforce for continuity and quality of care! Building bridges to caregiving leads to the building of bridges in all our lives.
And this past week, moms Dena, Faye, Nancy, and Soojung shared on our Facebook page why HCBS are essential to their families and why services must be preserved and expanded.
Moms nationwide have also fought for other significant changes to protect and support their families and others.
In Iowa, moms Charmain, Heather, Erin, and Nancy all advocated to challenge laws that would ban schools from requiring masks. Because their children experience disabilities and underlying health conditions that would make them particularly susceptible to severe illness or death from COVID-19, they argued that this ban would effectively exclude their children from public schools and deny them equal access to education.
Mom and advocate, Micki, shared her family’s experience with Social Security’s complex rules around benefits – and how earning around $300 too much 14-15 years ago nearly disqualified her son from receiving future benefits that would help him live independently in the community.
And last but certainly not least, Debbi and Kerri both detailed the impact that not being able to access paid leave had on their family. Debbi often worked through the night to meet her deadlines and keep hold of their health insurance that kept her child alive. Kerri and her family were forced to rely on a GoFundMe campaign to pay for their mortgage, utilities, and essentials so they would not lose their home.
THANK YOU to these moms and to all our moms and mother figures in our lives who strengthen us, support us, and work tirelessly to make lives better – not just for their families, but for everyone.